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Thursday, January 01, 2009

How Covert Subliminal Signals Can Help Your Get Your Way

persuade people

The art of persuasion is exactly that - an art that has to be mastered and understood before it can be successfully applied. This is not a by line to begin your course to tricking people into believing what ever you want to them. This isn't mind control. This is using the faculties that you already have on hand and some nuances as well as a good eye to see change in behaviours and predict what people are feeling. The messages that you exude - even something as basic as your posture affects people on a subconscious level - and can actually influence people to see your point of view - in layman's terms; how to persuade people using covert subliminal signals.

Posture, like mentioned before is an extremely important subliminal signal. These are the messages that you deliver to someone even before you open your mouth. Your posture can spell confidence, arrogance, a happy disposition and can make you see either open, friendly, successful and confident or even closed off and unfriendly. By posture alone a person can assume what kind of a person you most likely are, and based on their perception of you they can already decide if they want to listen to you in the first place. Putting your hands in your pockets, keeping your chin up and stiffening your body gives the impression that you are arrogant, closed off, think highly of yourself and unfriendly. Try to appear less closed off, be more relaxed and confident in your posture by seeming at ease with the person, show a genial and open expression to show that you have nothing to hide.

Contrary to the saying, clothes DO make the man. What you wear and how you wear it is also a powerful subliminal indication of the type of person that you are, and ultimately how successful you'll be in persuading people. Imagine a confident person who is dressed well - dressed in a way that gives the impression that he is a neat, well kept and successful person. This lets most of people's guard down, opens the mental state of people for greater acceptance and be easily persuaded.

The last subliminal indicator that would determine your rate of success in persuasion is the speech factor. Words are extremely important and the implicit and explicit things you say can influence anyone and give you the power of persuasion. This normally must be combined with an ability to read people and their posture. Change things up when you see people being unreceptive to the messages. Methods must be reassessed and a new set of words must be used to give a supposed insight into your emotions and intents - all that must be projected as good to the person you are talking to.

Of course this is not an entirely comprehensive manual on how you can better persuade someone. Subliminal psychologists all over the world agree that the five senses, touch, smell, etc all come into play when you try to persuade someone. Everything that you do, from what you do, how you do it, how you look and what you say, are all subliminal signals you send out to the person in front of you - signals that sculpt an image of character in their minds - character that gains you trust, trust you can use to your advantage and of course only for good.

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